Saturday is the most popular wedding day of the year

Saturday is the most popular wedding day of the year, according to data released by the Knot. Almost 30,000 couples are set to marry, with associated guests spending an estimated $1 billion on gifts and attire for the happy events, the site says.

In advance of this very hectic day, the multiplatform wedding-planning brand (part of XO Group Inc.) released its 2018 Guest Study on Tuesday, revealing average attendee expenses per wedding, as well as factors contributing to whether invitees accept or decline, and the thinking behind choosing an appropriate gift.

Per the Knot’s membership data, 28,633 weddings are scheduled for Aug. 18 in the U.S.

“A lot of couples picked it for the significance of the date, it’s a palindrome month—8-1-8-1-8,” says Ivy Jacobson, senior editor at the Knot. She also notes that summer and early fall months are the sweet spot for couples planning a wedding, generally because of weather concerns.

An average of 136 guests per wedding will attend this weekend’s celebrations. Each of those estimated 3.9 million guests will, on average, spend $261 on the event, including the gift, attire, and accessories, adding up to a $1 billion weekend—and that’s without travel costs. In general, guests who travel spend an average of $901 for the event total, including costs for accommodations, travel, gifts, attire, and accessories; members of the wedding party spend $928.

While those last two numbers are similar, Jacobson says it’s worth taking into account the extra costs involved for those in the wedding party. “You have the additional cost of the bachelor/bachelorette party, engagement party, bridal shower on top, so the cost goes up from there,” she says.

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Travel kicks up guests’ expenses by an average of $640, according to the Knot data.Photographer: phichit/iStockphoto
Of the 1,337 qualified responses (recruited via Facebook) for the study, 83 percent represented guests invited to attend a wedding celebration, with 17 percent serving as members of a wedding party. The demographic breakdown of responders was 89 percent female vs. 11 percent male.

A national survey released in March by found similar results, with the total average spend—including travel—on someone else’s happiness being $728; in the Northeast that number spiked to $1,070.

So while you may be invited to fewer weddings, expenses are rising.

“There can be some sticker shock at first,” says Jacobson. “But if you are choosing to spend this money, this person is important to you in some way, and people are excited to celebrate.” Overall, 70 percent of those surveyed by the Knot said they enjoyed the last wedding they attended, especially if it was well-organized.

When considering an RSVP, guests said their relationship to the couple was the most important factor regarding attendance (71 percent). Other considerations included date (50 percent), cost of travel (40 percent), whether their children were also invited (42 percent), and if they received a plus-one option (34 percent).

Happy couples want a Roomba, according to registries on the Knot.Source: Amazon
As for that all-important gift? Thirty-four percent of the Knot study responders said they purchase items off couples’ registries, with 29 percent gifting cash or a check, and 10 percent proffering gift cards. On average, members of the wedding party spend $107 on the gift, while wedding guests spend $88. The following five items rank as the most popular gifts for Knot-registered couples on Aug. 18: the KitchenAid stand mixer, Ninja blender, Dyson vacuum, iRobot Roomba, and an air fryer.

After Aug. 18, Saturday, Oct. 6, ranks as the second most popular date in 2018, with 24,359 weddings planned on the Knot. For users of the site, September is the most popular month to exchange vows (165,157 weddings scheduled), ahead of October (152,521) and June (135,140).

Marking 22 years in the business this year, Jacobson says the Knot helps plan 8 out of 10 weddings conducted in the U.S. annually, listing the national average cost per wedding in 2017 at $33,391. If you’re keeping track, that’s $956 million more pumped into the wedding-industrial complex this weekend.

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By Colin Bertram
August 16, 2018, 12:31 PM EDT

Are you smitten and in a rush to tie the knot?

New 24-hour marriage license law advances in Louisiana

Tahj Watkins
BATON ROUGE, La (LOCAL 33) (FOX 44) – Are you smitten and in a rush to tie the knot? You’re in luck.

The waiting period to get married in Louisiana has been shortened under a bill headed by the Governor.

The Louisiana Wedding Association announced that this new law will make marriage certificates valid in Louisiana after a 24-hour period.

This strategically positions Louisiana as the most romantic state to get married within a rapid license turn around time.

According to a news release, Governor Edwards signed the bill into law on May 22, 2018 and it will go into effect on August 1, 2018.

Originally proposed by Rep. Julie Emerson of Lafayette, the new rule drops the wait from the issuance of the legal binding document to the ceremony from a 72-hour duration.

Louisiana license law drops wedding wait time from 3 days to 24 hours

A new Louisiana law will reduce the wait for a marriage license from three days to one. The law takes effect Aug. 1. Currently, people looking to wed in the state have to wait 72 hours to get a license.

Reverend Tony Talavera runs the French Quarter Wedding Chapel. As president of the Louisiana Wedding Association, he lobbied for the law this spring.

Talavera said the change will increase the number of destination weddings in the state and boost tourism.

“If we make it easier for them to come to Louisiana to get married, they’ll come,” Talavera said. “We’re a romantic state. If I need to prove it to anyone, I’ll grab my violinist, I’ll grab a bottle of champagne, I’ll grab the carriage, we’ll stroll through the quarter and I’ll show them what romance is about.”

Talavera said there is already a couple set to be the first one to get married under the new law. That wedding is set to take place in City Park on Aug. 2, 24 hours after the law takes effect.

WDSU 6 News Jennifer Crocket

Re: State of the Louisiana Wedding Industry

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Our beloved state of Louisiana is a popular and world famous tourist destination, however, the state has not fully recognized the bountiful opportunity to capitalize on all available sources of tourist dollars. Louisiana already faces a billion dollar budget shortfall, and with the decline in the petroleum and film industries, sources of income and growth have become more scarce. This is why we must now closely examine what we have assumed to be a steady source of income previously set to fly on autopilot, based on our innate ability to welcome the entire world to our table to celebrate. This source is the multi billion dollar wedding industry.

This is a universal “feel good” industry that is a constant of American culture, most especially in those states gifted with classic romantic backdrops, ready made and abundant natural or man made beauty, plentiful arts in all forms, a strong hospitality industry, welcoming citizens, and diverse cultures known for celebration. Louisiana has all of the above, and so much more, so how is it that we have overlooked this major aspect of the tourism industry? This has become glaringly evident when analyzing the promotion of the wedding industry in both the state of Louisiana and the city of New Orleans. The most shocking point of data analysis: the budget for promoting the wedding and wedding tourism industry in our state in 2016 was zero dollars. This is absolutely mind boggling when there are billions of dollars ready to be handed over happily, by couples and families wanting to plan destination weddings.

Worldwide, the global wedding market exceeds $300 billion, of which nearly a fifth is spent in the U.S. alone. With all it has to offer, Louisiana should be in the top five locations for destination weddings. The fact that it is not, that New Orleans is not even in the top fifty of the nation’s cities for destination weddings, costs Louisiana an unthinkable amount of readily available and stable wealth, which would positively affect every industry and business. Unlike any other industry, the wedding industry is hands down, one of the best “feel good” platforms to increase revenue in our state. There is no debate, or down side, and everyone loves a wedding celebration.

For the city of New Orleans, the number of couples who wed annually were as follows:

2017 was 3,793, with an average of $26,641.00 spent
2016 was 4,457 with an average of $26,648.00 spent
2015 was 4,617 with an average of $26,675.00 spent *the year gay marriage became legal
2014 was 4,180 with an average of $26,123.00 spent

This is a mere fraction of the national wedding market, and these numbers are shrinking while many other destinations are steady or increasing. However, there are some ways that we can begin to raise our status in the market. If Orleans Parish increased its sales of marriage licenses from 75 sales a week or approximately 4,000 per year, as evidenced by the Orleans Parish Marriage License Registry, to sales of 1,000 licenses a week, we would see a 3 to 5 billion dollar increase in economic development for the city and state.

In the U.S., the total estimated number of weddings for 2017 was 2,183,994. The average couple spent $25,764.00 on their nuptials. This year, experts estimate that 57 billion dollars will be spent on weddings in the United States alone. It is time for Louisiana to step up and come to the table.

The “seventy-two hour (or three day) waiting period” between marriage license and nuptials is just one archaic restriction that keeps our state from serious involvement in the wedding industry, which will be explained in more detail below. The courts have already struck down another stumbling block on the road to planning a wedding; a legal requirement for each spouse to present their birth certificate. A federal judge declared this practice to be discriminatory against immigrants. This regulation has already cost Louisiana more than $150,00.00 in fees and attorney costs. Another out dated legal practice of requiring black ink to be used on licenses, actually contradicts current general legal standards that would request blue ink for authentic documents due to the methods in which we reproduce copies of documents today.

Under our current system, a prospective couple visiting New Orleans cannot get a marriage license after 3:30 PM on a Friday. Our first priority is passing legislation that permits issuing of marriage licenses on demand, even on weekends. This is especially vital for Orleans Parish. We must also address the major misinformation regarding the antiquated yet historically interesting “three day waiting period”, which came to be during the times of Storyville, but today, serves no purpose. Many eloping couples dismiss Louisiana immediately because of confusion regarding this waiting period. There is, in fact, a waiver allowing couples to marry the same day they obtain their license. This needs to be made more evident to shopping couples. While the city and state has the honor of being historically Christian and Catholic with a thriving Jewish community as well as other religions, there are many couples of all denominations as well as civil style celebrations and 2nd time marriages greatly sought after when people from everywhere are booking weddings in New Orleans.

Weddings are not seasonal, as are many other tourist peaks. They are a constant, and their frequency and size affects prosperity of all businesses in Louisiana. Couples should have the option to obtain licenses at their convenience, after hours, or at offsite locations. One potential site could be the 8th District Police Station, which is already mandated to be open 24 hours. All such licenses would be issued under the watchful eyes of the law. Other locations are certainly possible. I am presently working on an advanced electronic system for issuing licenses, which can be discussed in person. (Consider the already expedited services of being able to check into a flight via computerized system.) Potentially, this electronic license issuing system could forward information to the Departments of Immigration or Homeland Security if that is deemed necessary. Through this system we could also include an electronic affidavit for both parties, certifying whether they are widowed, divorced, or neither. The present system is extremely biased toward men and women who have not changed their names following marriage.

Current officiant regulations are lax and unenforced. Instituting a $100.00 charge for an officiant’s license, extending to present officiants, would remedy this. This license should include official training, perhaps computerized, and would come with an official photographic identification card, as well as an officiant’s license number.

Presently, numerous parishes use social security numbers on their marriage certificates, creating a major risk for identity theft. Further, Louisiana requires officiants to maintain copies of marriage certificates for life, with no provisions for what is to be done with the certificates after death. This is onerous for the officiant, and creates hoards of unsecured personal information in the hands of someone perhaps untrained in the keeping of sensitive information that might lead to identify theft or other fraudulent financial or other illegal activities.

The cost of a marriage license has not increased in twenty years. An increase from $27.50 to $77.50 adds little financial hardship to even a financially struggling young couple; couples unlikely to be traveling for purposes of a destination wedding. A further out of state resident fee of $50.00 would add considerable revenue without taxing Louisiana residents.

We must raise the price for a certified copy of the marriage license from $5.00 to $15.00, as well as increase the postage cost. The office that mails Louisiana marriage licenses charges only .50 cents for postage. It costs more than a dollar to mail the newlyweds their certified copy of their marriage license. We lose money on every single certified copy.

California and Gatlinburg, TN have suffered from extensive fires. Las Vegas is on the decline. New Orleans and Louisiana stand strong. The wealth described in these pages is like delicious fruit, ripe for the picking, or glittering diamonds shining in the sand. It’s a call to attention that will allow wealth to trickle from wedding celebrations (which are joyous occasions for all) celebrated in our state, to every business or service industry that continues to provide the hospitality and charm that keeps the tourists flocking to our open arms. There is no reason that Louisiana should not be one of the foremost destinations for marriage, and there is no reason the citizens of this state should not know the prosperity that results from a vibrant and flourishing wedding industry. New Orleans is, after all, on the bucket list for the entire world. I think this is an excellent and positive platform for any and all groups or individuals concerned in the success of our state. Thank you for taking the time to read my data and presentation. I aspire to live up to my unofficially bequeathed local New Orleans title of “Ambassador of Romance” for and on behalf of Louisiana. We have so much to gain! I look forward to your reply.


Rev. Tony Talavera, of the French Quarter Wedding Chapel,
Founder and President of the Louisiana Wedding Association,

*co-author (with Senator John Hankel) of Senate Bill 565, allowing wedding officiants to sign the “72 hour waiting period” waiver,

*ensurer of the proclamation by the New Orleans City Council that New Orleans be recognized as the “Romance Capitol of the World” (February 14, 2007),

*recipient of the proclamation by the New Orleans City Council recognizing The French Quarter Wedding Chapel as “one of the most memorable, romantic, and unique venues in the Romance Capitol of the World for two people to unite in marriage” (January 25, 2011)

*data obtained with the aid of Clark County, Nevada ( andThe Wedding Report (, Office of the Lieutenant Governor (John Dardenne) data from the 2016 tourism budget as provided by director of programs and services, research, editing, and support by Dr. Charlotte Milazzo, Michael Gosack, and Michael Marrs

Photo credit: Dark Roux Photography

Louisiana ordered to pay $154,000 over blocked marriage law

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February 22, 2018
By The Associated Press

A federal judge Wednesday ordered the state of Louisiana to pay more than $150,000 in fees and costs to attorneys for a man who successfully challenged a law that prevented him and other foreign-born U.S. citizens from getting married.

U.S. District Judge Ivan Lemelle’s order comes more than six months after he permanently blocked the marriage law.

Lawyers who represented Lafayette resident Viet Anh Vo had asked for nearly $213,000 in fees and more than $11,267 in costs. Lemelle awarded them $144,614 in fees and $10,140 in costs.

The Indonesia-born Vo sued in 2016 after he and his U.S.-born fiancee had their application for a marriage license rejected by court clerks in three parishes. The law blocked Vo from getting a license because he couldn’t produce a birth certificate.

Vo was born in an Indonesian refugee camp after his parents fled Vietnam. Neither country’s government recognized his birth. Vo has lived in Louisiana since he was 3 months old and became a U.S. citizen when he was 8.

Vo and his fiancee, Heather Pham, spent thousands of dollars and invited 350 guests to their wedding in February 2016 before their application for a marriage license was rejected by court clerks in Iberia, Vermilion and Lafayette parishes. The couple went ahead with the ceremony, but couldn’t make their marriage official until Lemelle ruled in their favor.


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Louisiana’s birth certificate requirement for marriages blocked in court

March 22, 2017
By The Associated Press

A federal court has blocked a Louisiana law that requires marriage license applicants to have a birth certificate, finding it denies equal protection rights to those born in foreign countries.

A federal judge blocked a Louisiana marriage law on Wednesday (March 22), saying its birth certificate requirement violates the rights of foreign-born U.S. citizens.

Viet Anh Vo and his U.S.-born fiancee, Heather Pham, embraced and cried with their attorneys in the courtroom after the judge announced his preliminary injunction.

The 2015 law was meant to deter foreigners from gaining visas and citizenship through sham marriages by denying licenses to people who don’t present certified copies of their birth certificates.

But U.S. District Judge Ivan Lemelle said it denies some foreign-born U.S. citizens their equal protection rights as well as the fundamental right to marry.

“It treats him differently from citizens born in the United States or its territories, Lemelle said.”

Rep. Valerie Hodges, R-Denham Springs, was the sponsor of the legislation. She did not immediately respond to an emailed request for comment.

Vo, 32, said he planned to take Pham out to dinner Wednesday night to celebrate ruling. He joked that he might even make another marriage proposal over dinner.

As soon as Thursday, the couple plans to go back to the clerk’s office in their Lafayette hometown to get a marriage license. They may even officially tie the knot over the weekend.

Surprised and relieved by his victory, Vo said it shows

“one person can actually make a change in the world.”

“I just hope others can look at my situation and fight for their rights, too,” he added.

Vo, who goes by Victor, is a U.S. citizen who has lived in Louisiana since he was three months old. He was born in an Indonesian refugee camp after his parents fled Vietnam, and said neither country will certify his birth.

Vo and Pham spent thousands of dollars and invited 350 guests to their wedding before their application for a marriage license was rejected last year. They tried at three separate parishes, but were denied each time by court clerks.

They went ahead with the ceremony and exchanged wedding bands, but their marriage has lacked legal status.

“The couple, greatly disappointed, proceeded to hold a sacramental marriage in their Catholic Church. This marriage, however, is not legally recognized by Defendants or the State of Louisiana,” his court papers say.

Vo is represented by the New Orleans Workers Center for Racial Justice and the National Immigration Law Center. Alvaro Huerta, a Los Angeles-based attorney for the law center, said the ruling enables the couple to immediately obtain a marriage license.

Their lawsuit says Vo automatically became a U.S. citizen as a child, when his parents became citizens, and he has official U.S. government documents reflecting his birth, refugee status and legal residency. It says he’s working on getting a certificate of citizenship and a U.S. passport, but the state law doesn’t recognize either document.

Lawyers for the state and parishes noted before the hearing that Vo’s complaint didn’t say whether he went to a judge for relief from the law. They asked the judge to apply any remedy to Vo alone.

In court, Neal Elliott, an attorney for the state health department, asserted again that Vo’s situation is unique. He also said the department has suggested legislation to address the constitutional issues, but acknowledged that there is no guarantee it would become law.

Lemelle gave no indication from the bench that his injunction applies only to Vo. Lawyers are waiting to see his written ruling.

“We don’t know if it’s going to extend to others, but we presume so,” said Huerta.

– Kevin McGill and Michael Kunzleman, Associated Press